Qs

 The announcement for the quarantine levels next month is that my province will stay in Modified General Community Quarantine but NCR still unchanged in GCQ. Honestly, there's not much difference between the two essentially these days. At least in the Mega Manila area. Everybody is trying to go back to the semblance of normalcy we had before. Traffic back is a testament to that.  But of course, it still isn't the same as the various closed establishments and the daily over 1K cases would remind you.  Anyway, on a personal interest level, I was hoping NCR will be downgraded for the sake of the cinemas. NCR still in GCQ means cinemas will still be closed and even if MGCQ areas can open their cinemas,  major movies won't still be shown without the biggest markets available. So yeah the chance of seeing Tenet in the cinema here is probably over. Wonder Woman 1984 is eyed for January 8 but a high-def pirated copy will be floating in the Internet by then as the movie will be out in streaming in the US  on Dec. 25 so yeah tough luck!

December na bukas!

Also, nine months of quarantine. 

Damn.

Limited

 My laptop's monitor had been flickering for over two years now but I didn't replace it because well - money reasons - and it is still workable but yesterday it has gotten quite worst that makes it extra hard to work on now. This laptop is just secondhand one I bought from an officemate over 5 years ago. I got it for cheap really and worked so well except for this monitor thing. Now I'm thinking if I should have it fixed or should I just buy another cheap one. It's quite hard because I have limited money to spare so I need to make the wise decision. Honestly, this just highlights how I don't earn strong enough and it makes me sad . I'm so insecure over finances really. I wish I had more but this isn't the year to complain about it because I'm so lucky to still have a job. I have savings of course but I'm so cautious about it that I don't want to spend a huge amount. But this could be the time I might need one. Still, I hate how this simple problem is  giving me such trouble. 

Stuck

 Traffic has been insane near our place! Yesterday, I had a smooth commute back home until we reached the road which normally is just a 5 minute drive away to our barangay but we got stuck for nearly an hour! I had to walk because I can no longer stand the traffic and I was hungry for dinner! Earlier today, we went out to buy medicines and there was traffic at 2PM on the same road! So unusual and annoying really! And we are still not in normal times, right? Just imagine if it was. 

Jolt

 I've been anticipating ABS-CBN's Christmas Station ID this year because of everything that happened in 2020, I was wondering if it can rekindle some Christmas spirit in me which I've been struggling lately. This week our office was already decorated and instead of bringing holiday cheers, it just made me feel sad. This year is just horrible that I can't muster the enthusiasm. Anyway, the lyric video was release and it brought me some smiles. I can't say I'm really in the holiday mood yet but listening to the song and reading the lyrics, it gave me at least some of jolt of happiness. It's a beautiful song, a hopeful one. That's what I need. 

 

Backlash

 A friend made a snarky tweet about a certain foreign music star and it caught the ire of the fanbase of that artist. His tweet went viral to the fandom and they went in droves to bash him on his twitter account. I've read some of the tweets and nasty stuff were said. My friend didn't delete his tweet about that artist but he went private and took some time off the social media platform. I asked him if he's okay and he said he is fine and he can laugh about it now but he admitted he got anxious too. I got anxious too just reading the attacks against him. Social media is such a nasty place sometimes. Even more so now. It takes a lot of mental power to handle that kind of nastiness. I personally won't be able to handle that kind  of online rage thrown at me so that's why I'm careful what I tweet these days especially I easily get anxious too. It makes me sad that the Internet that once was an escape to me feels so dangerous too. Oh life.

Emote

Ever since I watched this performance on ASAP last Sunday, this song has been on repeat. When I first heard it when it was released, I didn't leave that much mark on me but what an excellent live performance can do, eh? This song is so obviously emotional sometimes to a fault but then again it feels cathartic to listen to it! To be clear, I have no love issues similar to this song's story 😛 but Moira is such a good storyteller with her music really. It's immersive! 

Relief

 Accompanied my mother again for her check up regarding her thyroid nodules and we were so relieved that doctor has cleared her for any major disease and that she no longer needs medication for it as the lab results showed her thyroid function is back to normal. My mother was nervous before we went to the clinic so I was really cautious not to show I was nervous as well. Thank you Lord! It's been such a difficult year and just glad at least one worry on the medical side is over. Next month is my mother's routine blood chemistry tests for her diabetes management and praying for good results as well. 

Snippets 7

 Some routine thing for tomorrow that is making me worry a little. I think I should not be but this year just intensified my worries that I can't really be complacent. But please Lord, let us have some good news tomorrow/

***

I usually look forward to December because well the 13th Month Pay/Christmas Bonus but now I'm sure we will have both this year or just 13th Month. Of course, we would understand if it just the 13th Month pay given the year it was. I do feel like the company is in good shape, as best as one could hope for in this economy. I have one project though which fate is up in the air though. I was given a heads up that it could end in January. But not sure yet, there's still some pending matters that could change things. I hope this project continues but of course only if it makes financial sense for the company.

***

I have no more thoughts of leaving my job and the company. I feel blessed and grateful that this company really took care of us in this crisis. I may not have the salary I desire but at least I found a home here. 

It Continues...

 I've been reading news about the second wave of COVID19 in a lot of countries. Some went back or about to return to stricter lockdowns. Here in the Philippines, we have an average over 1K cases everyday, down from the usual 2K but still not a number where people can rest easy to say this is over. It's not. Although I've observed life here in our place is not as strict anymore. Shops don't require quarantine passes. When I went grocery yesterday I was the only one wearing the quarantine pass! It's not a requirement anymore actually but I still wore it because I got used to it and also to remind that this isn't over yet and I should not be complacent. The news of two pharmaceutical companies announcing that they have vaccine that had good effectivity results in the test trials at least gives us hope that by 2021 we can find the road to normalcy again. Of course mass manufacturing and distribution are another story but at least there's something to look forward to, one uncertainty over. But for now we should stay alert. The finish line is still far away but this won't be a never-ending leg now. 

Ice Cream

 Nutrition Month 1996! I was in Grade 3 and this was my first time to ever speak in front of a crowd. This costume was made by my sister's high school boyfriend, haha! He actually used to do a lot of my projects that needs art because he is a good artist! I saw this photo again just recently. Apparently, my sister was hiding our photo albums because his husband was looking for it one time because he is curious to see my sister's ex to tease her lol! Anyway, nice flashback to see this again. I was adorable when I was a kid haha! It also gave me some weird feeling of wanting to have my own mini me someday. I'm not sure if it's gonna happen if you ask me now but you'll never know

200th

 This is my 200th blog post this year! Yeah, this has become part of my routine now. I now feel compelled to write something each day. Anything really. Random ramblings and whatnot. It has helped me greatly to manage what I'm feeling. Especially this year, an unforgettable year. November is about to end and less than 40 days before Christmas. I still get anxious from time to time. I get paranoid still. I can't help it. I just pour my attention to work or distract myself with entertaining stuff. But I don't live in denial of course. You can't escape reality and you just have to deal with a lot of stuff head-on. It's just the way it needs to be. 

Calls

 I read someone's tweet that says you won't be able to change their minds if you call them names. I totally agree with it because even if you have a valid argument but insult them in the process. it will fall on deaf ears to that person because all they can remember are the insults. When you fight with negativity, then they fight back by ramping up the negativity even more. However, I can't blame those who are losing their cool because the level of crassness is just unbelievable. I wish I was an eloquent  guy where I can speak my mind with words that can actually make people ponder but I'm a mess so most of the time I just stay quiet or change topic whenever I encounter people in real life with a problematic opinion. I wish I can enlighten them nicely but really it's hard when some people are so used to crassness, aggressiveness and obnoxiousness already. That they feel the louder, the better. This is the difficult part of this era. Each day I'm so alarmed with what's happening especially the attitude of some people. I really don't like cancel culture because you just close doors without truly hearing each other's side and giving people benefit of the doubt.  What if you can change their mind? What if you can gain further insight why they stick with problematic belief? What if you are blinded by your biases/mindset as well? But those things are not happening right now because healthy discourse is dead. Can we ever have that back?

Cling

There was a meltdown last night and once again overshadowed the true issue. To the surprise of no one, course the cheerleaders and and enablers are doubling down on the negativity and turning things around to make them the "victim". So sick of this merry-go-round. I hope there's a silent majority out there. People like me who are so fed up but just not vocal both in real life and social media. I hope those people will be enough to lead a desirable change in the future. It can't be like this way for so long, right? There's got to be a breaking point that will result to an awakening. I want to continue to believe that there's still hope somehow even if it's so hard because you just feel that there's nothing changing.

Double Crisis

The heavy flooding in many provinces in the country were so depressing that I actually avoided watching the news  and also lessened my time in social media. Watching people suffer is just giving me indescribable feelings. While there's a lot of good thing going on social media like campaigns and calls for donation for those affected but there's a lot of anger too! Justified of course but still it just gives me anxiety. Then of course there's always the dirty side of politics in this even in time of crisis. I can't even fathom how some people act these days, still defending and giving excuses and the worst of it still demonizing those who criticize and turning the tables against them. That's what they are good at really. And sadly they still have clout. It's really frustrating how the discourse have turned to the past few years. I'm so sick and afraid that it will have an repairable damage in the long run. 

Lights

 Ayala Avenue Christmas Lights are now up! Back in the pre-pandemic days, this excites me because the lights are always a sight to see and makes everything so festive. Now, I won't be able to see the lights as I go home early now. Maybe it's for the better because maybe seeing the lights with so few people around will just trigger sadness yet again. No matter how beautiful the Christmas lights are, it just isn't the same anymore. 

Photo from Jeff Hernaez

Trip

I watched the TRIP TO QUIAPO series on iWant TFC site today and it's the TV adaptation of Ricky Lee's  book which has become the local scriptwriting bible. I saw copies back in college and I wanted to but but then backed down because I don't think I'll be ever script writer anyway. But after watching the TV series, it' rekindled something in me yet again. One takeaway I got from the series is the journey is more important than the journey. I could so relate when Ricky Lee said that many wants to be a writer but dislikes the actual process of writing. I'm daring to dream again really but of course having an actual output is a different thing. Who knows. I never thought I will blog again everyday but I did it again this year. But what this year thought me among things is that life is so uncertain that I need to stop putting things off because you'll never know what happens. 

Unnoticed

The images I saw of the heavy flooding in the Northern provinces left me shocked. The Typhoon Ulysses aftermath was focused on the damage in Marikina and Rizal that everyone was shocked when images, videos from citizens spread online last night and finally entered national news on how Cagayan province is in deep trouble with heavy flooding affecting a lot of towns, with families needing rescue. How can vital information such as this came in so late to mainstream and antional consciousness? This is so alarming. There's something truly broken right now.  

Unlucky

Friday the 13th! This day just reminded me of the last one which was in March. The last day of the "old normal". The next day the community quarantine was imposed and lives were put on hold.  Last Friday the 13th was the last time the office was full of many people. It was last time I saw a lot of co-workers too. Some are still working from home, some left. I went back to the office in July but up until now each time I pass by the empty cubicles, it makes me sad. 

It was also the last time that I saw the streets of Ayala busy.  Full of life. Even if the volume of vehicles increased and there's traffic again, there's still a kind of silence that's deafening. That day was also the last time I saw my favorite eatery near the office open. Now, there's a FOR LEASE sign in front of it. I also remember, planning on that day to take a leave to attend my nephew's elementary graduation scheduled later that month. It was cancelled and we didn't see my nephew on stage to deliver his valedictory speech. 

People often say to be extra careful when it's Friday the 13th because bad luck could happen. But nearly everyday since that day in March feels like Friday the 13th anyway.

Off Guard

 So Typhoon Ulysses brought bigger damage than expected. In places like Marikina and Rizal, the floods were so huge that many people were stranded in their homes and for some on their rooftops! Here in our area, there was a brownout from 2AM and last until 930 AM. I was in deep sleep during the peak of the typhoon but I woke up around 4AM with the strong winds slamming the windows and doors. Quite scary, I woke up around 8AM and while it was still raining, it was a lot calmer. Thank God, our place didn't get hit badly. Watching the news and I was so sad to see how so many areas got hit pretty badly. Seems like a lot of people didn't expect that this typhoon will be this bad. There were warning but it was not on the same level of awareness Rolly had, there was a sense of dread during the briefings. 

This news report caught my attention because of the interview of the mayor. His voice was somber and he almost cried. You could see how sad he feels for all those fishermen whose livelihood is in jeopardy

Empathy. It doesn't take that much to emphasize but sadly there are people who have other priorities in this crisis. Not surprised anymore but  I hope the narrative changes soon.

Another Day, Another Typhoon.

Today we are hit by Typhoon Ulysses. Signal #3 in Mega Manila. All day it was raining in Makati but soft rains so I didn't think it will be that hard but on my way home, the raindrops are harder. When I step off the van, the winds were strong and almost broke my umbrella. I've decided to work from home tomorrow instead to stay safe and frankly commuting is a hassle when it is raining.  As I type this, it is still raining with strong winds! Hopefully, there won't be a brownout. I feel for Albay and nearby provinces who were ravaged by Typhoon Rolly just recently and now another typhoon is upon us. While forecast say this isn't super typhoon but still it just making life so hard for a lot of people right now especially now in a pandemic. *sighs*

New Screen

 Over the weekend, we purchased a Smart TV and everybody at the house is excited! Our old boxset TV in the living room wouldn't open and instead of having it fixed my mother said that to buy just a new one, yung uso as she said. I was quite shocked she suggested it since she's very thrifty but she said she has some money saved up and it's better to use it since paper bills were still signed by the previous president. I said that it was still valid anyway since it's still the same money but she insisted that she wants to buy a new one. So she asked my brother to drive him and Tatay to the appliance store to canvass. She actually didn't go inside the shop and stayed inside the car for health precautions. Anyway, my brother was able to find an affordable one which was on sale. It's not the latest version but we really don't care about it as long as it is from a credible brand and has a warranty. Anyway, we set the TV up, setting up the cable was easy but the Internet-based one I was dumbfounded at first but my 12-year-old nephew helped me figure it out! Glad to have a kid here who is techie! I really enjoyed the casting feature the most really. I actually pondered on cutting the cord because our cable company of more than 10 years is annoying me lately because they pulled out Kapamilya Channel after a week and not even carrying the free TV channel A2Z. I complained multiple times but all I get are template replies. Something fishy going on there but that's another story. But do they ANC/Teleradyo/Cinema One/Jeepney TV and well my TeleNovela Channel so I guess I will keep it around for the meantime. It's still the same monthly payment all these years and it's actually cheap. Anyway, my parents enjoyed watching on the YouTube app, they even watched my brother's wedding last year which is uploaded there. The problem of course is that the Internet is sometimes not reliable especially since our Wi-Fi modem is located a bit far from the TV. Anyway, I think it's nice to have something like this at our house, we've been careful with our expenses and I think we deserve a little luxury from time to time. 

I Wish I Was..

 On the alumni FB page of my college course, my former prof who is the department head now asked for our job hunting stories after graduation especially those who didn't land a job in the broadcast journalism or media industry. Initially, I was not interested to answer because I don't feel like sharing because it will open up wounds but then the responses were all engaging to read so I was compelled to share my story. Here is what I posted:

I waited for 4 months to land a job sa isang news media company but exams and interviews lang po eh. I have no connections, just tried my luck but I never really came close. So the first job offer I had - content writing for Internet marketing  - tinanggap ko agad because I wanted to have a job before Christmas. But since it was not the type of writing I like, I lasted only 3 months. Next job was as an editor but for academic journals abroad and it's more on technical editing based on their guidelines. It paid well because it's a BPO company but I struggled because it's not really something I like to do. I continued looking for a new job in my 5 months with that company and finally landed one in a small media production company. The starting salary was minimum but it's a media-related job finally so I carried on. I'm still here 11 years later. But to be honest,  I still had multiple attempts in between those years to look for another job mainly because of financial reasons. My income is adequate but you have to be thrifty to survive, so little room for luxuries. I also have a side job for nearly 10 years (writing movie reviews and community management for a local website) to supplement my income. I won't deny sir that financially speaking working in the media industry is a big challenge. In my mid-20s, I actually had a job offer from a dream media company but then the salary was way lower than my current job so I sadly turned it down. I just couldn't risk leaving my stable job where I am already a regular employee (something that's hard to get in this industry). If that offer happened in my early 20s and still fresh from college I would have accepted it in a heartbeat but I was at a point in my life that I can't afford to do so. I wish it wasn't the case but there I fully realized what "the real world" they were talking about before.

It felt good to share it on a public space. But also sad because I'm not a success story 12 years after I graduated. I wish I was but hey 2020 thought me things could be so much worst.

Hope

 And what a week it was! Biden has been officially won the Presidential Race! His and VP Kamala Harris speech were so beautiful. The past few years I have been so sick of hateful and antagonistic speeches from top leaders that I felt like I was numb already. Those speeches were sensible. coherent and full of empathy. I know the road won't be easy and won't really fix the problems at once but at least today gave me hope that hey there's still room for basic decency in a world where aggressive, in your face pandering to extremes have taken the spotlight. For now I can breathe. 

Closer

 The US Presidential election is insanely close! Edge-of-your-seat race! And because of this I've been reading how US elections work, how the electoral works and I feel like theymade things so complicated when a simple popular vote could suffice but oh well I'm no Political Science expert nor a resident there to say what works or not. But the system is fascinating though. I imagine if this was a system here and if there will be any difference. Probably not though.

Biden is thisclose to winning. Some say it's just a formality now. But you see I will wait once everything is official and hopefully it will come tomorrow. 

Still Counting

 The US election counting of votes is still not over! I'm quite hooked to it actually. I could even say this is exciting if weren't for the anxiety-triggering result if the incumbent wins. This is like a rollercoaster ride and I hope the result will be favorable to my preference. Although I know even if that happens, pandering to division and conspiracy theories will still continue on but still we need to have steps back to respectful and sensible leadership to the most powerful country in the world. Hoping for the best!

Nail Biter

 So the US Presidential Elections is still too close to call. I admit I don't fully understand their electoral college system but based on what I've read it is a neck-and-neck race. It actually made me anxious because even though I prepared myself for an unfavorable result but I'm still holding on to hope for the opposite! I should probably not care because I'm not a citizen but the incumbent is just so deplorable and if he wins again, he will be emboldened to what unfortunately seems to be working for his supporters. I just want basic decency in leadership in the most powerful country to return. I'm so worried. 

Please...

 I'm not even from the US but I'm nervous about their election results today. In the past, I never really cared even in 2016. Now, it's so different because whatever happens today will have an effect, directly or not, on the rest of the world. It's still the most powerful country in the world and all eyes are on this election. I'm nervous because the opposite of what I hope happens then it will just send a statement that the abrasive style will still be loud and pandered on. It will still be chaotic and divisive with respectful discourse still shafted. I'm quite losing hope really with the way things are happening now. I don't know what to feel right now. Maybe I should just stop caring? Is even worth it? I'm powerless anyway. 

Update 4 hours later

Yeah looking like it will be the same again. While I prepared myself for this result, now that this closer to reality it truly sucks

Messages

 Today is Tatay's 66th birthday. It is bittersweet because today also marks the first week since my Tito, his youngest brother, passed away. He actually said earlier that he misses Tito because he will always be one of the first people to greet him via text message. He actually does greet of all of us happy birthday through text message. That's how thoughtful he is. My siblings posted birthday messages to tatay on Facebook and since they are the ones with a wide friend list among Tatay's relatives and former co-workers, there were a lot of sweet messages that came our way and my sister read it to him earlier. There were also a couple of who called Tatay (one video call) to greet him including his eldest sister, who is the only remaining sibling Tatay has now. They usually don't communicate that much because she lives in Mindanao for so long already so this was quite something. But I'm glad because they need each other more than ever now. I've also appreciate the messages that my Tatay received today. I know part of it is also looking out for him after the deaths of his two brothers the past two months. It's been tough for him but he is handling the best way he can, fighting off the sadness and worries.

Oh Dear God, please bless and guide my Tatay. Keep him and our family safe from any form of harm and danger. 

Resilience Ain't Enough

 After yesterday's super typhoon today the sun was shining brightly. It was relaxing to see calm, normal weather again. Mega Manila got lucky the wrath of Rolly didn't hit the areas hard. Unfortunately, not the same case in Albay, Batangas, Aurora, Quezon, and Catanduanes among others. There are places that all systems of communications are down so they can't be reached so no clear information yet of the extent of the damage. Typhoons are so normal in this country but this year is just extra difficult. Imagine if you are one of those who have to evacuate. You are in an evacuation with other people, many families, with the danger of exposure to the virus. So many worries. So much stressful situations. And oh some will romanticize their hardship as "Filipinos are always resilient" yeah that's true but stop romanticizing it. There should be more, we couldn't just rely on resilience forever. We deserve more

Signal #4

 Cavite is now under Signal 4. The expected landfall of Rolly here is between 4-7PM tonight. As I type this the rain is minimal but STRONG winds. Lakas ng kalampag ng mga yero sa paligid

I hope this won't be as hard that will affect electricity. Major concern right now although we have prepared for batteries and all phones are charged up but still a stable electric connection is needed. This is the most alarming typhoon since Yolanda. Apparently, this is the most hard hitting typhoon of the year, not just here in the Philippines but the world! Oh my goodness. God help us

Rolly

So there's a super typhoon coming today in the country and the warning is quite alarming. Here in Cavite it is signal #2 but it is humid as I type this which is alarming because this could be the calm before the storm? I hope it won't be a s bad Yolanda, Ondoy and Milenyo. This year is already tragic.

Wavering

 I went back to the office today and my mind was occupied with work but I have this flickering moments where I suddenly think of my departed Tito again. Flashes of his final moments especially when he suddenly cried after a long moment of his eyes just staring blankly. That flash of emotion, his last one, really left a big mark on me. Those were tears of heartbreak as he is about to leave us. As much as I try to console myself that my uncle's passing is for the better, so that the pain of his bone cancer will no longer be felt, but still I'm still so heartbroken that I will no longer see him. That I will no longer hear his voice. Tatay said he just wants to pretend that Tito is just away at work so busy and has no time to visit us which was actually the usual thing with him. I wish it were true.

Strong

 My uncle was laid to rest today. Last night it was raining hard and we were worried that today will have a typhoon but thank God the weather was good and we were able to say our farewell without the difficulty that a rain could bring.

I'm gonna miss my Tito so much, he is young just recently turned 56 years old. I'm looking out over my father, his older brother, he handled it as best as he can but I know it was really hard for him to lose his youngest brother so early and add to the fact he lost his two other brothers, one just last month and the other exactly a year ago. Earlier on he asked me to delete the phone numbers of his deceased brothers on his phone. It made me sad to do that but I totally get where he is coming from. It's his process of letting go. He was really hungry when we ate a fast food after the funeral service. He didn't have an appetite earlier too and just ate one pandesal and drank milk. I was with him during the service and he was asked to speak but he could only last a minute before he passed the mic to a cousin. He was just emotional to carry on. He also couldn't look when Tito's coffin was being buried to the ground already. I went with him when we were standing under a tree nearby and chatted him to ease the burden. 

Dear Tito, please guide my father and help him stay strong. It will take a lot of time before he can get move on from this grief but please guide him from up there so he can stay strong. Don't worry as well, we will be there for Auntie Rose and Ralph & Daniel's family. 

No words can fully explain how I will miss you so much. 

Unfair

My uncle will be laid down to rest tomorrow Thursday because due to the pandemic protocols we can't have the traditional weeklong wake. Even if we could only have the wake for 2 nights still glad we still get to honor his life because if he passed on during the peak of the lockdown here, he will have to be cremated immediately even if the cause of death is not COVID19. I went to work today to fix some things needed because of course I will be there to witness his final resting place. Nanay won't come though because she will look over my nephew who still has online school to attend to. She also admitted that she doesn't want to see my uncle lifeless and wants to preserve his memory of being alive and healthy. My uncle is close to Nanay and one of his last requests was to have Nanay's homecooked meal of a fish dish he loves which Nanay of course willingly did it for him. Tatay is so far holding up fine, he is chatty person and was able to take care of the people who visited the wake today be it relatives or my uncle's co-workers. He actually met the company president of my uncle's workplace. He had  nothing but good words to my uncle and he expressed what I've been feeling as well that he truly didn't deserve to have such debilitating illness because of how hardworking, responsible and honest person he is.  Life is so unfair. 

Thank You Tito

 Today we lost our beloved uncle Tito Romy. An unforgettable moment because I was there on his last few moments. I heard his last breath. The last time he cried will forever be in my mind. It is bittersweet because the physical pain finally ended but still losing him will leave a big hole in our hearts. I'm looking out for my Tatay because he lost 3 brothers in a span of a year. So far he seems to be handling it as best as he could but I know he is in deep pain. I woke up early this morning because my phone was ringing and it was Tatay but I missed the call. I thought he was just waking me up to eat breakfast but when I went to the dining table, he wasn't there and Nanay said he went to Tito's house because my aunt called. After breakfast, I went there and saw my aunt crying and their neighbors and friends were all there consoling her. Tatay told me Tito is dying so he asked me to go to him and say my goodbyes. And there it was I saw my uncle having difficulty time breathing and his eyes were blank. I knew it immediately the end was near. I said to him that don't worry that we will look out for his family and that if he wants to rest, he can do so. I thanked him a lot for all the things he has done for us all these years. My father left because he had something to do at home and I stayed by my Tito's side while my aunt was calling her sons. My youngest cousin was driving because he just arrived at work when he was informed of my uncle's situation so he had to leave fast. My other cousin was on his way. My aunt was telling my uncle to hold on and wait for his sons to arrive but my uncle was struggling. One of their neighbors initiated a prayer and after the prayer ended, he held his last breath. We shouted his name but he was no longer responding. It hurts because his sons didn't make it on time to say goodbye. Tatay too wasn't there at his last moment but he did say his goodbyes earlier on. But maybe Tito wanted it that way, that his beloved Kuya and sons won't see him die in person. 

What made this day even sadder? Today is also my auntie's birthday. Did he fight to make it on her birthday at least? We will never know but I won't be surprised if in his heart he did try to make it to celebrate his wife's birthday but sadly he didn't make it the entire day.

 To be honest, I still can't fathom why a kind, responsible, and loving man had to suffer like that. Maybe I won't know the reason why it had to happen this way anytime soon. For now, all we can do is pray for his soul. Maraming salamat Tito. Mahal na mahal ka namin.

Quinta

 Typhoon Quinta hit hard last night and well until earlier today especially in the southern Luzon provinces. Here where I live we were on Signal #2 and last night the typhoon hit hard with strong winds pushing our windows. There was a short power interruption too! There were cancellation of classes too even if it is now remote/online because there could be power interruptions, floods at home and Interne signal problems too that will affect classes. Good thing I'm work from home today and tomorrow so I won't have to worry because this weather could be a reason to get a common cold or flu and that's a no-no during these times. 

To be honest, I prefer the inconvenience typhoon brings because at least we could still function normally unlike this pandemic with its long-term effects and endless uncertainty. Oh well. 

Praying for a Miracle

I had a stressful morning today because of an uncle in a health crisis and there was some emotional moments that led to a misunderstanding. But good thing a bigger conflict was halted and cooler heads prevailed. It was just a conflict driven by the stress and frustration of what's currently happening to our uncle who is in a state that's so depressing to see him struggle. To  be honest, a miracle is needed to save his life. It's so painful to see him in pain, we don't want to give up but is better to let go? I really feel for my cousin and auntie, they are in an unbelievable situation right now. Oh Dear Lord guide us. It's against realistic odds but can there be a miracle, please? 

Groceries

I've been doing the grocery halfway when the lockdown started and continues to do so until now. My parents stayed in the car while I was inside the grocery. They just want to go out really even if they don't step outside. Totally understand, especially my mother who was mostly stuck at house due to the lockdown and the medical issues she had this year. She's already happy she can go to the market now. Anyway, since the provincial government already allowed entering the malls and groceries without quarantine pass, it was less strict to enter the grocery now. Just the usual temperature check and log in. I still wore our quarantine pass just to be sure really but inside I noticed I was the only one still wearing one! I like grocery shopping because it is kinda relaxing in a way? Ever since I was a child actually because I was one of those kids who rode the big cart when I was small! I've always accompanied my mother even in teenage years. We even had experiences of carrying 4-5 grocery bags while commuting from Alabang or even Makati to Cavite. The two jeepney rides we took and even crossing the streets! Quite a hassle really but looking back now I was trained early on! But damn what you could buy with 1000 back then but now oh well 1K won't be enough for a big family really. The experience I had doing grocery shopping by myself for the family is a good learning experience to me. 

Dim

 Traffic on the way home is horrendous. As if we are back to normal times. It annoyed me so much because while restrictions are loosened up, there are still restrictions. We are not back to regular programming despite the return of traffic back into our lives. The holidays will be guaranteed different now and it saddens me so much. No bright Christmas lights in malls can brighten up the atmosphere. 

When?

I'm not really an outspoken guy. I try to avoid toxic personalities. They stress me out. But sometimes I just can't handle it anymore. Especially in this era. I'm so sick of obnoxious people and the people who cheer them on. But I'm not gonna lie I'm scared as well because they have clout. They are in position of control. I'm not really brave. I worry easily. I chicken out of confrontations. I'm quite ashamed of this. It's so frustrating because there's so much maddening and alarming things happening around. I hate that they are winning. When will it end? When will common decency and respectful discourse return? 

Hopeful

 Jeepney rides from our place to Alabang will finally return tomorrow! Very happy for the drivers after those agonizing months of not being allowed to. Traffic will be a lot more difficult but hey people can finally have their livelihood again. The governor also announced today that malls in the province will no longer require quarantine pass to enter the mall. That's good for the business inside the malls, may they have a fighting chance right now. Today's reported confirmed cases is 1, 509 which the lowest since early September.  That's a good sign but of course nothing to celebrate just yet because tomorrow cases could go back to 3K again but really hoping it's truly a sign of a good downward trend. Life will still not go back to the normal we knew anytime soon but I'm holding on to hope that the worst could be over. Please dear Lord, please let this be the start of something better soon. 

New Ride

 We have a new carpool driver starting today as the previous one texted us passengers that he won't be available for the next two weeks. I didn't ask why but I'm a bit worried for him. I hope it's not a health issue. The past few months I've been riding his vehicle, I've felt really comfortable and safe to go to work. He really takes good care of his passengers so I hope the reason for his absence is not something delicate. Anyway, the new driver is also a good one alert and makes sure his vehicle is clean and he is quite OC so that's good. It was raining all day so having an accessible and comfortable way to commute is such a relief. 

Struggling

 My sister told us how the company she's working for is really struggling right now. It's a small company that was directly hit by the pandemic. The restrictions just made it more difficult for that line of business to survive. For now, her boss will try to make it work but the challenge is very high that her boss asked her if she's okay with a pay cut just until the company recovers. She agreed because well she wants to show her support to her boss. Tough times really. Recently, there was news that there are companies that may not able to give 13th month pay for the holiday season. It made me think of my company as well. I'm quite confident our big boss will of course give us one because even in the years the company had financial troubles, he still made it work. I feel the company right now is in good shape relatively speaking of course. I'm quite thankful for that really. The economic fallout of this pandemic will linger on for so long. I'm quite scared with what the future beholds. 

Snippets 6

 I was able to listen to mass today after SEVEN months! So glad the subdivision chapel finally had a mass. There's pandemic protocol of course, we had to register before entering and we were given "Seat numbers". The allowed capacity is a little over 100 people. In my estimate the total number of mass attendees were above 90. So not bad really and only two people were allowed each bench. Prayed hard today and it was soothing to the soul.

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Nanay finally had to chance to go the market today! During the months that we were the ones doing it, we could never satisfy,there's always something wrong with the fish or produce we bought, hindi sariwa, masyado raw mahal etc. She's really good at this, she was able to haggle to such good prices to her sukis!. Glad she was able to finally do this again.

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My sister needed something printed for work and all the Internet shops near us closed down during the lockdown. Found one with 15-20 minute walk from our house. Printing cost was cheap just one peso per page so it was worth the walk! The shop also issues receipts which my sister neede for reimbursement. The shop is a part of a family business located in one commercial space composed of a barber shop, pharmacy and sari-sari store. Glad to see some business thrive.

Some Steps

 Earlier I noticed the checkpoints here in our barangay have been dismantled. I guess it is because they have been causing traffic with more vehicles on the road now. But I did read in our official barangay Facebook that there are now 4 active cases and we haven't had a new case in a few days. So that's good news. Also read that the jeepney routes here to Alabang will come back soon! Happy for the jeepney drivers here, finally! I will still ride the carpool to be honest because it's more convenient but at least good to know I now have another option which hopefully will be cheaper. There was also an announcement that the chapel in our subdivision will finally hold mass tomorrow! Daily cases here in the country is still over 3K regularly so yeah still no signs of this virus not posing a threat anytime. But still, these pieces are good enough to give me some hope things will be fine eventually.

Always Something There to Remind Me

 The latest season of The Amazing Race premiered yesterday and in the beginning of the program Phil Keoghan, the host, made a disclaimer that this season was shot before the pandemic. Actually, this was shot in 2018, it really got delayed for so long.   I was glad to have this show back on air, it gave me an escape from reality but I felt sad later on because I realized this could be the final season of the show as the show's concept is impossible to produced in a pandemic.

Sometimes I forget but there are reminders everywhere of what we are living right now. We are in the midpoint of October. The last two months of this unforgettable year are coming. Can there be a glimmer of hope?

Thank you and Goodbye Yahoo Groups!

I haven't been an active user in one for a decade already. In fact I rarely open my Yahoo Mail these days actually!  Still, the closure of this once popular Internet place makes me a little sad because it signals how much has changed over the years. I've been into a lot of interest type of groups and there were even classes back in college where we had this one and this where the professor sends files for us students! Those were the days! Thank you and goodbye Yahoo Groups!

 

Pause

I just stayed at home today as the carpool driver had a personal errand. There's another way for me to commute to work but I had qualms about it because it will take me 2 rides and it will be more expensive on my end. Thankfully, I didn't have an urgent task that needs my physical presence at the office so I can work from home for today. Also, it rained all day so not really an ideal weather to commute. I do love the cold breeze as it has a relaxing and calming effect however right now as I type the rain is pouring hard so it's stressing me a little. I will go back to the office tomorrow and hopefully the weather will be better.

Worry Less

So today I faced one of  the things that I've been worried about for months. It's a medical concern involving my mother and we had a lab test out today and THANK GOD my worst fears didn't happen. My mother will still be in regular maintenance medicines and will need lab tests every 6 weeks to monitor the situation but at least the bigger potential medical concern is ruled out and hopefully it stays that way and she maintains good health. It's a such a relief to me really. In this stressful year, my main concern is the health of my loved ones. Oh Dear Lord, please guide us each day and keep us way from big harm. 

Worry Again

Tomorrow there's something that it making me worry again. I need to prepare myself in case of the worst case scenario, hopefully I can handle the stress better and not fall apart. On the other side, maybe it is just me overthinking things again which I normally do. But this year, so many fears happened. So I can't be panatag, I should always be alert and mentally prepared. But please God, let tomorrow be not negative, please, please. 

Not Over

 There was a religious procession earlier in our barangay but of course due to the pandemic protocol, it was a different one without the usual karakol, the procession was done with people in motorcycles and vehicles. It was odd really. I understand this is a safety measure and they just want to salvage the tradition but it just doesn't have the same feeling. I've accepted that this is how life is gonna be for the foreseeable future but moments like this will remind you of what you can't have right now. Earlier this week I dined in at a fast food and I was the only one there. It felt so eerie and sad. A friend also told me a story about how one private hospital is struggling because they lack manpower now with some of the staff left due to various reasons like the fear of getting the virus or compensation dissatisfaction. it's not on mainstream news because the hospital is trying to keep the problem on their own for now. 

That's why I can't help but feel dread with the holidays coming. I hear a Christmas song but it just makes me sad. 

Reel Threat

 The new James Bond movie No Time To Die moved to next year, Pixar's latest SOUL will now be a streaming release in the US via Disney+, local microcinema Cinema Centinario closed down, a new mainstream local horror movie U Turn will now be on pay-per-view online and cable on demand. MMFF just announced that the annual December fest will go online. Major cinema chains in the US will close down for the time due to lack of new major releases. Here in the Philippines have closed down since March and still no signs of returning soon.

I'm worried for the cinema experience. I hope this pandemic won't kill it for good. 

Trying Hard

 Check out this web show my friend from the college student paper created and starred in! I'm envious to be honest because he is living one of the dreams I have hehe

Make no mistake though, I'm so proud of Gelo!

The first episode of TRYING HARD will be out on YouTube Oct. 11. Check out the trailer below!

Meet Makisig Bonifacio. Maki for short. A gay Filipino young professional living in Nashville, Tennessee.

Minority

There's this recent national survey that made me feel so frustrated. After all that happened the trust is still that high? I wish I could say it is fake and not really representing the general view but I have anecdotal experience with some people I interact with and yeah they still trust and defend him. I don't know what to say anymore. I feel hopeless. Will that perception ever change? 

My Last Movie Ticket.... For Now

 This is the last movie I paid to watch in a theater this year. Onward back in March. Just a few days before our lives changed in ways we didn't imagine. I miss the cinema. I miss being immersed in a world and escape reality. Watching a movie on your laptop much less your phone isn't the same. I hope this pandemic won't totally kill the movie theater industry. 

A2Z

 ABS-CBN will return -somewhat- to free TV this Saturday via blocktime deal with Zoe TV Channel 11 on Analog TV and their joint venture is called A2Z. A to Z get it? The name, aesthetically, looks a little off with 2 and Z looking so similar but hey small issue! What matters is that they will be able to get back in the free TV advertising arena. I hope the network can earn good enough to avoid a potential next wave of retrenchment. I still have friends working there and hopefully they can keep their jobs. Hopefully, there won't be any hindrance and those people will back off and leave the channel alone.

Why?

 So just awhile ago you saw someone in deep physical pain. You want to help but nothing you can do can make the person feel better. You could feel the frustration and all you can do is to reassure the person that it's fine, nothing to worry about. But the person isn't dumb, you could easily feel what people feel deep inside. Stress. Worries. Fear. All mixed into one ball of excruciating emotion. You don't want to lose hope yet all signs are pointing to a bad conclusion. How can you stir optimism with everything that is happening? You don't want to question life but you can't help but wonder why this is person is suffering like this. They don't deserve to suffer like this. They didn't live a bad life. Why?

Edge

So tomorrow is the start of the classes for public schools and I've been watching the news and there is just so many challenges for both students and teachers. Majority have no access to a gadget much less Internet connection to do online school. Of course there is the physical module but still could students really learn by answering just the modules? A guidance is needed but a lot of parents are not equipped to teach as well due to various reasons as some are just too tired and exhausted working to have time to teach and o simply not understanding the lessons too as well. 

My nephew have been doing online school for more than a month now and so far he is doing alright. I'm glad since he is already in Grade 7 so he could adapt easily now but still being inside a school is still different and he misses it a lot too. But for now we have to deal with what we have right now.

I hope though before the school year ends, he will be able to go back to school safely and actually meet his teachers and classmates in person. 

Tree

 My brother put up our Christmas tree already and I was surprised because we usually  do the decorating post-All Saints/Souls Day but then again Undas is cancelled this year basically because the government are not allowing people to visit cemeteries this year to avoid spreading of the virus. But still I feel it is too early but I guess my brother wants to feel the Christmas spirit already. For me, I don't have any enthusiasm right now. I'm still sad that we have reached this far and no signs of going back to normal yet. There are so many things that frustrates me too. I wish I can avoid what I feel but I can't lie to myself.  Seeing Christmas decoration is just making me sad more than ever. Because I dread how will it look like in this horrible year. I wish when 2020 is actually over, we can have an actual restart in 2021 and things will better automatically. But life does not work that way.

Convenience?

So in Metro Manila apparently buses are now mandated to have contactless payments which actually is not a bad idea especially in this pandemic but I think the implementation is too sudden, they should have a slower rollout first like cash payments still allowed for a certain amount of time before going full contactless. Also, the transportation card must be affordable and there shouldn't be a convenience fee everytime you load up! I used to a ride Point-to-Point bus to work which uses a card too but there's option for cash as well. When you load up, there's no convenience fee at all! I hope they fix this soon enough, commuting is already hard so why add more burden? 

Snippets 5

 No office work tomorrow as the building will have full disinfection for precautionary measures. I got a little stressed because I have a pending task for tomorrow that I will have to do next week now. So I will have time constraints but oh well I'll deal with it next week. It's pointless to stress about something beyond my control. 

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My sister will go back to working at the office next week but only on MWF while she works at home TTHS. While she got used to working at home now, going back to the office is still a good sign for their company's future at least. Having a stable job during this time is so essential.

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I dined in at Jollibee this week and the branch where I ate was nearly empty. In  a way it is safe because few people means lower risk of the virus spreading but still makes me sad really how life has changed so much. Can we ever really go back to the normal life we once knew?

***

I was at the grocery earlier and they were playing ABS-CBN Christmas Station ID songs. It made me feel sad because well Christmas this year won't be the same due to the pandemic and well ABS-CBN's fate this year. I'm sure they would still try to produce one this year but I feel it will have a tinge of sadness to it because of what happened this year. 

***

I was listening to a podcast earlier and one of the host opined how she recently felt like her job is so inferior compared to her brother. It triggered something in me again because at 33 years old I just have many insecurities where my life is right now. Before this pandemic, my occasional blog posts mostly covered my insecurities and frustrations.  2020's horrible streak of events made me forget about those but  it came back to say hello today. I don't know if I can ever feel fulfilled again.

Negative

 My uncle who is sick is thankfully negative of COVID19, my aunt informed my father earlier. My uncle's sickness is not really connected to it but as a precautionary measure by the doctor he had a swab test. Thank God! My uncle needs personal care right now so if he was positive of the illness it would have been hard for his family to take care of him as he will be isolated from them. My uncle's journey in battling his illness still has a long way to go but at least one scary possibility has been eliminated already. Praying hard he will beat this life challenge.

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My other uncle who passed away will be cremated tomorrow. My father was able to gather more than enough funds for it. He got stressed earlier because his SSS pension was delayed since normally it would be released a day or two before the end of the month. We have been checking his ATM for the past 2 days and nothing! Earlier this morning, still no pension! I went to SSS Facebook page and found it was not just him but seems like all pensioners had delayed release. My father would have used the money to help his my uncle's family so he was really frustrated when it was still not released. Thankfully around 3PM the pension has finally been transferred to his bank account. My father was still quite moody earlier tonight but I figured it out it is because his brother will be cremated tomorrow and he won't be there physically to say goodbye so I understand the frustration. My dear uncle Jesus please guide Tatay, he loves you so much. 

A Reminder

 Earlier I noticed my favorite canteen near our office building has a FOR LEASE sign now. They have been closed since the lockdown but I was hoping they will eventually come back when the situation gets better. But months have passed and things didn't get any better. The total cases in the country is now over 300K and there's still quarantine with no foreseeable. A lot of offices in our vicinity are still working from home or worst have closed down. Sad to say the canteen can't really go back in business because there's limited customers anyway. It's sad because that canteen had been present since I started working with the company for 11 years now. While I usually have packed lunches to save money but in the times I don't or I stayed overnight at the office, that's my go to place because of the home cooked meal feels it had and their place is so clean as well. We are entering the 4th  quarter of the year and I'm so close to giving up hoping that things will be better anytime soon. 

One Last Time

 My father was busy all day contacting relatives to inform them what happened to my uncle who passed away yesterday. He was also asking for financial assistance for the cremation and other needs of his family. The truth is my uncle didn't have a good reputation among our relatives with money matters. My father knows this but his love for his brother is strong enough to overcome any hesitation or shame to ask for financial help. I overheard him talking on the phone telling someone that despite all the problems my uncle had brought upon, I hope for one last time they could help him out. When he was able to gather over 20K today, I saw how his face beamed as we collected the money in the remittance areas and ATMs. I read a text message from my aunt thanking him profusely for all the help he did today. I haven't seen my father cry but I know deep inside he is grieving. He is dealing with this sadness by doing the best he can to help his brother one last time While my uncle gave him some problems too, my father never gave up and continued to support him until the end. 

Hard to Believe

 An uncle passed away today and another uncle is hospitalized with a life threatening illness. Both are the younger brothers of my father. My father is of course stressed and devastated with what's happening. Bakit sabay sabay? All we can do is support my father right now as he grieve while at the same worried with his other brother in critical condition. He is coping by contacting relatives to inform about the sad news and coordinating financial help. He sadly can't go my uncle who passed due to the pandemic. And he said to me, he is not sure he can handle his emotions and could cause his blood pressure to rise. Oh dear Lord please guide my father in this very difficult time. May my uncle rest in peace while my other uncle heal as soon as possible.

Tough times

Diffuse

 Earlier there was a tension at home because of the bad news we received yesterday. It was a result of the stress and sadness because of that news. I was the one who was in the middle to pacify the people involved. It was so stressful but hey I'm quite proud how I handled the situation because things did get better and the friction was resolved. By dinner time everything went back to normal. Emotions are just high because of yesterday's bad news. I guess that moment earlier was needed because there were pent-up emotions involved that needed to be let out. Tough road ahead but I know I need to be stronger than ever so I could be the rock they could lean on.

Numb

An hour ago I was informed of a very sad news. I won't go into details yet because honestly I'm still processing what I am feeling right now. It involves one of my greatest fears in life. While I already had a feeling this will happen but now that it is confirmed, I still feel shocked that it is happening. This year is just the worst. 

Stretch/Stress

 So I've been doing a lot of research about Plantar Fasciitis because of what I've experienced and I've really learned a lot and I must say YouTube has been quite helpful for me to understand about it. There's a lot of verified channels that discusses and shares tips on how to take care of it. I've been trying some of the stretches now and it has helped ease the pain. I was able to walk normally today although from time to time there are still pinches of pain but not that sharp anymore. One thing I've realized because of this ordeal is how poorly have I taken care of my feet. It will change now. 

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I'm dealing with a new thing that's stressing me a little. To be honest, I really shouldn't but I don't know why my initial reaction with matters like this is skepticism. I always manage my expectations but maybe it's getting a little out of hand that I always set myself up for disappointment. I always think of the worst case scenario and the likelihood of failure is stronger. Some are just fear and lack of confidence I admit that but I feel that there are cases where I just don't see how it works out but I never tell it to the other people involved because I don't want to be that person who drags everyone down or be exposed as a coward. With this particular matter, I'm on the fence what's really bugging me about it. Oh well, no matter what I still gotta and work my best. 

Plantar Fasciitis

 So I found what this excruciating heel pain I've been experiencing is all about - Plantar Fasciitis! Sounds scary but thankfully it's not. It is when a tissue at the bottom of our feet gets irritated or inflamed that causes this sharp pain on my heel! It happens to athletes and well to fat people like me that the weight was just too much for my poor feet to handle so it gets strained. Also can happen when you wear a shoe that's too tight! Another check on my box. Anyway, to relieve the pain I've looked up measures to ease the pain and discovered a doctor's vlog on YouTube! The massage and stretching techniques she shared WORKED! Thank goodness because I had a hard time walking because of this heel pain!

 

Heel Pain

 Today was physically stressful because out of nowhere I had heel pain so walking was a struggle! I have no idea why I suddenly had this when I woke up. Could it be a bad sleeping position? In the morning, the pain was not that sharp but when I stepped off the van and walked to my office, dang! I felt a sharp pain when I tried to walk normally so yeah walking was quite a struggle. It was quite bothersome until I got home and my parents noticed I was walking weirdly. And my parents are such worrywarts that they thought I got hit by a car or something --- yes that negative on the first go! It was quite stressful but anyway explained to them it wasn't the case. My mother massaged my heel which gave me some relief. Right now,  the pain is not that sharp anymore and I could walk better now. Hopefully I'll be fully healed tomorrow.

72nd Emmys Reactions!

So the 72nd Emmys happened and my prediction flopped with only 11 correct ones! I must the awards show went smoothly as the production was competent and quite good given the circumstance. I liked that this still had the thrill of awards when most of the winners accepting their awards in real time even remotely. It was a clean 7/7 sweep for Schitt's Creek which kinda annoyed me because the final season of The Good Place went unrewarded! But I totally can't hate the show even if I'm not a fan (and haven't seen the latters seasons) because the show is a true underdog. As for Drama my favorite Succession but sad they lost in supporting acting because Matthew MacFayden and Sarah Snook are my favorite on those shows. I don't watch her show but Zendaya's win was a pleasure given her family's reaction, that was a sweet moment! My favorite bit though is Sesame Street's The Count showing up to show support for What We Do in the Shadows, clever! This tweet from nominee Ramy Youssef went viral because it showed that there was actually an Emmy intern outside his home in hazmat suit with Emmy in hand in case he wins and when he lost, the intern bid farewell and left! Bizarre but funny!

Anyway, I'm glad Emmys did deliver something not awkward to watch and as the Emmy host Jimmy Kimmel yeah giving awards in the entertainment world is of least importance especially in this world we live in right now but hey this brings in some form of fun and we need that right now.

My 72nd Primetime Emmy Awards Predictions

 The Primetime Emmy Awards happening tomorrow! It will air locally on FOX LIFE and I'm really glad unlike the Oscars, there's local coverage here! The awards night will be virtual given you know what so I'm curious how they will execute this one since they will do it mostly live and they have over 100 camera crews stationed to the nominee houses/hotels/wherever they are staying to capture their winning speech live. I'm more excited how they will pull it off than the actual awards! Anyway, since I'm back on blogging I might as well bring back the awards predictions I used to do here when I was an active blogger!

Here are my predictions!

OUTSTANDING DRAMA SERIES: 

Succession 

OUTSTANDING COMEDY SERIES: 

Schitt's Creek

OUTSTANDING LIMITED SERIES:

Watchmen

OUTSTANDING COMPETITION PROGRAM: 

RuPaul's Drag Race

OUTSTANDING VARIETY TALK SERIES:

Last Week Tonight with John Oliver

OUTSTANDING LEAD ACTOR IN A COMEDY SERIES: 

Eugene Levy, , Schitt's Creek

OUTSTANDING LEAD ACTRESS IN A COMEDY SERIES:

Catherine O'Hara, Schitt's Creek

OUTSTANDING LEAD ACTOR IN A DRAMA SERIES: 

Steve Carell, The Morning Show

OUTSTANDING LEAD ACTRESS IN A DRAMA SERIES:

Jennifer Aniston, The Morning Show

OUTSTANDING LEAD ACTOR IN A LIMITED SERIES OR MOVIE

Hugh Jackman, Bad Education

OUTSTANDING LEAD ACTRESS IN A LIMITED SERIES OR MOVIE

Regina King, Watchmen

OUTSTANDING SUPPORTING ACTOR IN A COMEDY SERIES

Mahershala Ali, Ramy 

OUTSTANDING SUPPORTING ACTRESS IN A COMEDY SERIES

D'Arcy Carden, The Good Place

OUTSTANDING SUPPORTING ACTOR IN A DRAMA SERIES

Matthew MacFadyen, Succession 

OUTSTANDING SUPPORTING ACTRESS IN A DRAMA SERIES

Sarah Snook, Succession 

OUTSTANDING SUPPORTING ACTOR IN A LIMITED SERIES OR MOVIE

Jim Parsons, Hollywood

OUTSTANDING SUPPORTING ACTRESS IN A LIMITED SERIES OR MOVIE

Jean Smart, Watchmen

OUTSTANDING DIRECTING FOR A COMEDY SERIES

Modern Family, Finale Part 2

OUTSTANDING DIRECTING FOR A DRAMA SERIES

Succession, This is Not For Tears

OUTSTANDING DIRECTING FOR A LIMITED SERIES, MOVIE OR DRAMATIC SPECIAL

 Watchmen, This Extraordinary Being

OUTSTANDING WRITING FOR A COMEDY SERIES

Happy Ending, Schitt's Creek

OUTSTANDING WRITING FOR A DRAMA SERIES

Succession, This is Not For Tears

OUTSTANDING WRITING FOR A LIMITED SERIES MOVIE OR DRAMATIC SPECIAL

Watchmen, This Extraordinary Being

Snippets 4

My uncle had his MRI today as he had been experiencing extreme body pain that almost made him immobilized. Praying hard for good result. My uncle is such a nice, generous, and hardworking guy and he does not deserve to have such physical suffering. I really hope he will feel better soon enough and this sickness will be cured. 

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There's a major change in a work project I have that made me a little sad but I know this will be for the better to help the project's sustainability. It's not really a bad thing but just a major change that I need to get used to. I can adapt with changes but I can't stop my emotion sometimes. 

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For the first time since we've been using a prepaid Wi-fi modem over a year ago, we had connectivity problems today that only one phone was able to have a good connection while my laptop and my nephew's desktop struggled to connect and when we did, the connection was slow except for YouTube! It was so odd but we turned off the modem for nearly an hour, when we turned it on again, the connection was good just like it used to. Anyway, good thing it was a not big problem because we're still gonna stick with a prepaid  Wifi, cheaper! 

Productive

 Today was one of the busiest day I had at work during this pandemic and I absolutely loved it. I arrived at the office a little past 6 AM and was busy all the way until 3;30 PM! I juggled multiple tasks which were doing quality check for dubbing, video editing revisions, submission of videos to our uplink facility. supervising the task for my work from home video editor and some paperwork! I even found some time to ran some errands for my parents during my break. I totally maximized my day. What I love about being preoccupied is that I didn't have the time for soul-sucking sentiments which I have been dwelling on lately!

Enveloped in Sadness

 Gloomy weather today. It didn't rain but some drizzles. It's the type of weather I actually like: Cool breeze without the stress of hard rains. It's the perfect weather to walk around and relax. And yet with everything going on, it just doesn't feel the same. In fact, the cold weather worries me because I could get the sniffles and THIS IS NOT THE TIME to have one. Six months in and even if I've experienced some liberties now, I still can't shake this feeling off. The gloomy weather even added intensity to what I'm feeling inside. I was listening to a local podcast earlier and one of the host said that the one of the permanent things in our lives is uncertainty and this pandemic placed it on centerstage. So true. 

Counting the Days

So we are now on our 6th month of quarantine and coincidentally this day also marks the start of the traditional Christmas countdown with 100 days to go. Frankly, it's so hard to muster the enthusiasm for the upcoming holidays with the uncertain state we are in right now.

Today we were issued a new version of the barangay quarantine pass with QR code now. This pass is not just for a single person per household but for three people now. I should be happy about it because it is less restrictive than the old one but the fact we still need a quarantine pass 6 months later is not something to be happy about. I'm still not comfortable in this so-called new normal. I can deal with it but I can't accept it. 

I saw a mall a few days ago which already has Christmas decorations like we have our normal lives back. It looks so sad because yeah the decorations are festive but so few people inside. It feels like they were trying to get that holiday magic but who can experience that anyway? Still hoping and praying for the country - the world - will be in better shape to celebrate the holidays.

Borders

 I discovered the Vox Media online documentary series BORDERS during the lockdown this year and I was mesmerized~ This is basically a travel documentary that focuses on under reported stories about international cultures and conflict. This was so educational and immersive. Excellent journalism! Unfortunately, the show's host Johnny Harris announced on his YouTube channel that the series has now been cancelled due to recent events. He was not direct about the reason but safe to say it's a financial fallout due to the pandemic. Journalism is really hit had by this crisis. So frustrating. 

Manic Monday No More

I usually work from home on Mondays but because of an important task I went to the office today and it was first my time to commute to work on a Monday in the pandemic world. The last and only time I went to the office on a Monday during this "era",  I was fetched by the office shuttle along with other co-workers residing in Cavite. Today the travel was so light and it's a strange feeling since it's a Monday. I don't know why but I can't still fully accept the "normal" we have right now. It's been 6 months and all signs are pointing that we will gonna stay this way for the rest of 2020. Why am I still in denial? Why am I still resistant? 

Go Away Negative Thoughts

 So our relative who is sick right now is worrying us a lot right now. I'm trying to calm my parents down by assuring them that everything will be fine and that he will be cured eventually but they are skeptical and seems to be losing hope. Our relative is bed ridden now, I don't know why he is not being rushed to the hospital but my guess is because of fear of COVID19 as well as the possibility that they could be turned away too because of the pandemic and beds could be full. Our relative is just in pain and has expressed he wants to have peace now, scary thoughts really. My parents are visibly worried and anxious. I'm afraid the stress will affect their health too. That's why I'm pushing for optimism because we can't lose hope.

 Oh dear Lord please save him and let him survive this ordeal.

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Water and Electricity bills came in today and paid them right away via Paymaya! We've been paying via those platforms since April and will definitely stick with it for the foreseeable future. My parents who used to be hesitant with paying without a paper receipt are now comfortable with this system 

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A close relative is sick and not in physical good condition. It's quite worrying. I hope and prays he recovers soon enough. I couldn't stress enough how getting sick in the middle of a pandemic is just so complicated and adds more tension

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My nephew had his first week of live Zoom classes and I asked him how was it and it was fine. The classes are from Monday to Wednesday and only in the morning. Just 30 minutes per subject. It's more really like a warm up, to test the new way of teaching. This academic year is just so hard because of how everything is so unprecedented. 

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I don't have high hopes that things will be better in 2020 but I can at least hope it won't get worse anymore. Let us see the light please.

Normal But Not

Today the office shuttle was back so I went to work at the office instead of at home which I normally do on a Friday. I had an important work task that I need to do in the office anyway. To be honest, I could have gone home earlier via carpool because there's less traffic on SLEX which is the route to our town. In the office shuttle, I'm the last one to be dropped off as most of my co-workers riding the shuttle are from Imus and nearby areas so we go there first where traffic is just more headache inducing. But of course I can save money via the office shuttle so I wouldn't pass that opportunity. Traffic was indeed horrendous!  Before when I get stuck in traffic, it is because there's so much activity going on outside but not the case this time. We were still in the road by 6:30 PM and the malls are already closed or most of their establishments are. It's just a weird look to have a "normal traffic" but the surrounding's atmosphere is not the same busy and active life anymore. During the early days of lockdown, I once said to myself that I miss the normalcy of the traffic! I've experienced heavy road traffic again but definitely it's not a sign of things really going back to our pre-pandemic lives The torture of traffic just found a way to insert itself in this so-called new normal. 

Headline

I was buying something for my parents at the nearby grocery earlier when I saw a single copy of The Philippine Star broadsheet and out of impulse bought it. After what's happening to journalism this year, I have the urge to help out the best way I can which is actually buying printed editions. The newspaper as expected is so thin and my father was also surprised when he saw it when I brought it home. I skimmed the pages and it is very noticeable that they have lesser ads than usual. Damn. I hope the newspaper can still survive. They still bring in quality writing and thorough reporting which you don't find that much online with the fight for clickbait titles and going viral overshadows actual article, so many people comment based on headline alone and not even bother reading the article!

Anyway, PhilStar's headline today is another one that made me sad! Hundreds of private schools ceasing operations!!! I knew this was bound to happen because the challenges of education in this pandemic is unprecedented and difficult to sustain. But there's something jarring to witness several schools closing down. The possibility of this even happening is something that never crossed my mind until this nightmare disrupted our lives. 

What a year this has been, the foundations of many industries are tested to the core. Such a pivotal moment of how we will live in the future. 

On Shaky Ground

 Retrenchment on ABS-CBN, Inquirer and now GMA News TV. I bought Philippine Star last Saturday and it only had 3 sections with 22 pages. Comparing it to the March 13 issue (pre-lockdown) that had 9 sections and 64 pages. Challenging times for journalism. No wonder my course was dissolved, it's hard to attract students to study journalism with fewer options left for a career. I'm afraid where the industry is going. 

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My nephew had his exam earlier with the school delivering the exam straight to our home. GrabExam? LalaExam? Such strange times we are living. My nephew seems to be able to adjust through with this setup at least. 

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Glad and relieved my mother's lab test results are generally fine. Lots of maintenance medicines but still better than a more worrying-inducing situation that I cooked up in my mind. 

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I accepted a new job responsibility because they requested help. I like the task but this one needs careful time planning. Anyway, it's sort of a good problem because it shows the company is busy and that's good business. 

It? No.

 So today the president gave a pardon to an American soldier who killed a Filipino transgender back in 2014. His justification why he gave the pardon is one you would expect from him. Of course, it is the hotly debated topic now on social media and as expected it went ugly especially those supporting the decision. I know transgender is a concept that won't be easy to grasp here in the country but the hate I'm seeing right now, unbelievable. Personally, I've only learned to understand transgenders fairly recently as well but still we are talking about living people here. They're not an "it" like how that person referred to the victim. 

It's so hard not to be jaded. The negativity never stops. 

Eleven

Just like the good old days of Friendster survey, my friend nominated me for this survey chain. Unfortunately, I may stop the chain because I don't know that many people who are still blogging on a personal level, nasa twitter na sila lahat! But I like the questions so here I go

1. If you can blog about something that no one can ever read, what would it be?

Detailed regrets and resentments in life. I sometimes share it here but I try to be vague.

2. What would have been your job if not for your current one?

A regular rank and file employee in an office.

3. Seeing how the pandemic has affected everyone in the world, would you consider migrating to another country?

Before I would say no but now I'm thinking if only I can afford to do so I would. Not really because of the pandemic but because I would want to go to a place with less stressful political environment. 

4.What do you think would have kept your preoccupied if there was no coronavirus?

Watching movies in the cinema maybe every week.

5. What skills would you love to learn?

Driving. I'm just really, really scared of getting into an accident.

6. If you can forget someone in your life, who would it be and why?

Someone that I unwittingly embarrassed because I made a poor decision on a tricky subject where I didn't trust my gut

7. If you can change one person today, who would it be and why?

Myself. I want to be braver in life

8. If you die now, would you like to have another shot to live? If so, would you like to continue living as yourself, or live as a new person?

Living with myself as long as it is with my family all intact and safe.

9. What is your idea of afterlife?

Peace.

10. If you can talk to anyone in the past, who would it be and what would you tell them?

A certain political figure and I would say to them "Foresight!"

11. Name a song that best fits your life so far

Malayo Pa Ang Umaga

11 Facts About Me

1. I started losing my hair in my late 20s and now I have a terrible bald spot like a middle-aged man. It's a source of insecurity to be honest

2.  I don't drink alcohol simply because I don't like the taste

3. I have two old model of smartphones.

4. I have Globe and Smart SIM cards. The Smart number I've used since college and the Globe one for nearly 10 years now.

5. I have no Facebook/Twitter apps on both my phones mainly because my internal memory is limited

6. I've been wearing eyeglasses since I was fourteen.

7. I have no Instagram because I'm not really a photo person

8. I don't like looking myself in a mirror because I hate looking at myself. 

9. I have an irrational fear of LPGs because I feel like it could explode anytime. 

10. My laptop has flickering monitor for over a year now but I have yet to get it fixed because it's still workable enough. 

11. Knocking on wood each time an extreme negative thought crosses my mind helps me deal with anxiety. 

XXXIII

1. I wish I can go out without a face mask/shield again
2. I wish I can go to mass.
3. I wish I can watch a movie at the cinema.
4. I wish I can commute the way I used to.
5. I wish I can see more people around the office.
6. I wish I can see a crowded mall again.
7. I wish I can go to an establishment without registering.
8. I wish I can get a body massage again.
9. I wish I can see kids playing outside again.
10. I wish students can be in school again.
11. I wish senior citizens can go out safely again.
12. I wish I will finally have the courage to learn to drive.
13. I wish ABS-CBN to return to the airwaves soon.
14. I hope this nightmare will be over soon enough.
15. I hope for more empathy.
16. I hope for more critical thinking.
17. I hope for healthy discourse.
18. I hope for more open-mindedness.
19. I hope for accountability.
20. I hope for being assertive without arrogance.
21. I hope for clear and decisive planning.
22. I hope for realizations of what's really wrong.
23. I hope for an awakening.
24. I hope for justice.
25. I hope for peace.
26. I pray for my company to continue to be in a good financial state
27. I pray for me and my family to stay in a good and stable financial situation.
28. I pray that I stay safe and healthy
29. I pray for my siblings and their partners to stay safe and healthy
30. I pray for my nephew to stay safe and healthy
31. I pray for my parents to stay safe and healthy. 
32. I pray that I can be more daring and courageous in life
33. I pray that I can handle the challenges that life will throw at me and will never give up no matter what. 

Eve

So it's my birthday tomorrow and per usual I have no plans especially now in the state we live in. I will have the usual cake, pancit, and all those food items to share with my family but nothing really special. I like having low key birthdays. Part of my introvert nature really. Also, I will accompany my mother tomorrow for her routine lab tests and hopefully, nothing scary comes out of it. My family's safety and health are basically my birthday wish every year.

So I will turn 33 tomorrow and geez I am at my father's age when I was born! I still sometimes can't fathom that I am this old, a full-fledged adult but here we are. Not gonna lie this wasn't the life I pictured myself in when I'm this age already but you know what with everything that happened this 2020, I have a new appreciation with my life. All my complaints and whinings before seem so futile right now. I have a lot of things to be grateful. 

But of course, while I'm basically contented where I am, I still dare to dream and hopefully I can manage to reach that even if it's gonna be difficult but reach for the stars, right?

Thank you Dear Lord for another year.